没人教会我的事

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[爱情就像捧在手心的小鸟，捉太紧它会窒息，不捉牢它可能飞走。]

从前开始

故事里的爱情总是甜蜜收场

身边的情侣们爱得那么张扬

听着情歌在默默治疗的内伤

从什么时候开始变得不痛不痒


没人说过

爱情可以让人那么混淆

本以为自身爱得很理智

老装资深给人爱情贴士

其实自己才是最受伤的孩子


谁来教我

爱情本身就是种不理智

可以让人不知觉地迷失

我不懂得控制

该止步还是往前


脑袋跟不上心脏的步调

甚至转向了不同的频道

谁来把我拉回轨道

我不知道


我是不是很善忘

常常忘记别人对我的好

总是记不起钥匙往哪儿放

但却忘不掉爱一个人带来的伤


我可以忍耐


没人教我

受过伤要怎么变坚强

错爱要怎么更正

爱情里的对错要如何划分

爱是不是一定会受伤


成长总会受的伤

跌倒才学会走路
我了解

都是些
没人会教我的事

必须靠自己学起来


感谢
没人教会我的事

谢谢
让我经历这些的人

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